S2E14 - Lisa's TIkTok Experience

In this episode, Lisa (The Poly Wife) shares her experiences and insights from her journey on TikTok, where she openly discusses ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Lisa talks about the positive impact of her content, including heartfelt messages from followers who find comfort in her openness. She recounts the pushback and criticism she faces, particularly around traditional societal expectations, yet emphasizes the power of speaking her truth and inspiring others. Jess and Ella praise Lisa's courage and reflect on how her authenticity breaks stereotypes and encourages other women to explore joy, confidence, and unconventional paths.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage for a conversation about speaking truth and breaking societal molds.

[00:02:00] – Lisa’s TikTok Journey: How she started sharing about ethical non-monogamy and the reactions she’s received.

[00:03:00] – The Power of Representation: Lisa reads a moving message from a follower who finally felt seen.

[00:05:00] – Shame, Judgment & Family Opinions: The common pushback Lisa gets and how she responds.

[00:08:00] – The Taboo of Women Dating Multiple Partners: Challenging outdated double standards.

[00:15:00] – Trailblazing & Visibility: Jess and Lisa discuss how normalizing diverse relationship structures can empower others.

[00:25:00] – Overcoming Internalized Fear: The emotional impact of stepping into the public eye and dealing with criticism.

[00:33:00] – TikTok as a Platform for Change: How short-form content is reshaping conversations around love, intimacy, and freedom.

[00:40:00] – Final Thoughts: The importance of continuing to show up, regardless of societal resistance

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: Join the after-hours community, workshops, and coaching sessions.

• Lisa’s TikTok (@ListenToLisa): Follow Lisa’s journey and her honest take on ethical non-monogamy.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational framework for understanding boundaries and self-awareness.

• Statistics on Ethical Non-Monogamy: Lisa references data showing that 17 million people in the U.S. have practiced ENM at some point in their lives.

• Books on Relationship Structures:
- More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert
- The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy